Once you know, at the core, you are a good person, the next step on your journey is detachment from outcomes. This can be difficult, i.e., wanting to be liked, affirmed, and accepted; your identity as a provider, protector, or controller. It becomes important to know whatever outcome, both good or bad, befalls an individual, that person attracted the energy. To start, pay attention to your thoughts, feelings, and actions. “Step out of the box” be an observer of the energy you have drawn to yourself.